Threesome fears

Well isn't it funny. I come here and move into my lush pink apartment in 'Casa de Constance' and what do I do? I stop blogging. Nevertheless there are things on my mind that need to come out. Things I have been thinking about a lot lately.

See, we haven't been married for too long and things were going alright. We were busy building the life we had imagined for us. Sure, after a while you get into a daily routine but that is what I imagined married life to be like. Yeah well, this is not how that panned out.

Now the husband wants to spice up things in the bedroom. Too bad that what excites him doesn't excite me. The majority of men it seems would fancy a threesome and I am by no means prude but the other day I heard someone say that if you are in love, you have no desire to be with anyone else. So far this has been my belief as well. My other half however has no qualms about it. He's been pushing me into this direction and I am not sure if I like it. I think too many things would change.

The odd thing is, that as a fantasy the threesome is something that is on my mind a lot. And by that I mean A LOT! And we have been experimental before but I will be darned if this may not be the beginning of the end of our marriage.

I need advice. Lots of it and I need it now. Have you ever been in this position. Has it come up in your marriage and what did you do?